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Yes. Your account is free, there is no subscription and you never enter a payment card. Replying to messages is always free. You unlock messaging new people with points you earn for being active - points cannot be bought or exchanged for money.

Adults only. An account can be created by a woman, a man or a couple - in a couple profile you enter two dates of birth, and both of you must be at least 18 years old.

Add at least one photo, write an "About me" description (at least 200 characters), choose your interests and what you're looking for, and answer the profile prompt. A complete profile earns you points, and people with complete profiles get replies more often.

In Settings, in the "Break and your data" section, click "Pause profile". Your profile disappears from search, Swipe and suggestions, you won't get notifications, and your conversations are kept. You can come back with one click - using the "Resume profile" button.

At the very bottom of Settings you'll find the "Delete account" section. Your account disappears right away. If you want your data to be permanently deleted as well, write to us - we will do it within 30 days. Before deleting, you can download a copy of your data as a JSON file.

In Settings, check "Hide my online status and last visit time". Others won't see the online badge or when you were last active, and people who have you in their favorites won't be notified when you come back.

Every photo is checked by moderation before others can see it. It usually doesn't take long. We reject photos that don't show you, photos containing personal data and illegal content. We mark racy photos, and people who prefer it see them blurred.

These are photos that only selected people can see. Someone can ask you for access, and you decide whether to agree. You can also let people unlock your gallery for points - you set the price yourself, from 10 to 200 points.

No. You can keep a photo of your face in your private gallery and show it only to people you trust. In the public gallery, a photo that shows you is enough - for example a full-body shot.

You take a photo of your face holding a piece of paper with a one-time code shown on the verification page. A moderator compares it with the photos in your profile. A verified profile gets a blue badge, points and 7 days of messaging. The verification photo is never shown to anyone.

Messaging someone first requires an active messaging pass, which you unlock with points. You earn points for completing your profile, photos, verification, daily logins, the question of the day and inviting friends. You can always reply without points.

These are first messages from people you haven't replied to yet. This way new invitations to chat don't get mixed up with the conversations you're already having.

In Settings you can limit new messages to verified profiles, to people within your age range or - with VIP - only to people with a photo. People you're already talking to can keep messaging you.

You get VIP for 7 days for points on the Points page. It includes a messaging pass, incognito mode when browsing profiles, a 24-hour profile highlight, more new conversations each day and a filter for messages only from people with a photo.

No. Points are earned only by being active on the site. They can't be bought or exchanged for money, and dejt.pl does not accept any payments.

On profiles and in conversations you'll find the "Block" and "Report" buttons. A blocked person won't see your profile and can't message you. Reports are reviewed by moderation, and for illegal content you can also use the "Report illegal content" form.

Don't send money, BLIK codes, gift cards or bank account details - no matter what story you hear. This is a typical scam pattern. Report the profile and moderation will review it. Nothing on dejt.pl costs money, so nobody has a reason to ask you for money.

Chat for a while on the site, meet in a public place, get there on your own and tell someone you trust where you'll be. You can also turn on "Safe date" - after the date we'll ask if everything is OK. You'll find more tips on the Safety page.

No. Profiles and photos are visible only to logged-in adults. Search engines only show the site's general pages, such as the dating tips and city pages.