Terms of Service
Version of 12.11.2026 (working draft pending legal review).
1. Who runs the service
The dejt.pl service (the "Service") is run by a private individual, contact: kontakt@dejt.pl (the "Provider"). These Terms set out the rules for using the Service and constitute terms and conditions within the meaning of the Polish Act on Providing Services by Electronic Means (ustawa o świadczeniu usług drogą elektroniczną). The Service is free of charge - we do not charge for accounts, messages or any features.
2. Who may use the Service
- Only persons aged 18 or over may create an account. For a couple account, both persons must be at least 18 years old.
- Each person (or couple) may have only one account. Creating accounts using someone else's details, impersonating others and running multiple accounts are prohibited.
- Other people's profiles and photos are visible only to logged-in users.
- To use the Service you need a web browser with JavaScript and essential cookies enabled, and an email address.
3. Account and profile
To sign up you must provide an email address, a password, a display name, your date of birth, gender and town, and consent to the processing of data about your preferences (Art. 9 GDPR). You provide the information in your profile voluntarily and are responsible for its accuracy. Photos must show you (or both of you - for a couple account) and become publicly visible only after approval by moderation.
4. Points and messaging passes
- Points are earned for activity in the Service (completing your profile, photos, verification, logging in, answers). Details and current rates are available on the Points rules page.
- Points cannot be bought, sold, exchanged for money or transferred to another person. They have no monetary value.
- Starting a new conversation requires an active messaging pass, redeemed with points (3 days - 80 pts, 7 days - 160 pts). Replying to messages is always free and does not require a pass.
- The Provider may change point rates and pass prices for the future. Passes already redeemed and points already earned remain unaffected.
- In the case of confirmed spam, fraud or multiple accounts, points are reset to zero and active passes are withdrawn.
5. Prohibited content and conduct
- content involving or concerning minors, including any sexual content involving them;
- photos of other people, intimate images shared without the consent of the person depicted, use of another person's likeness;
- offering or seeking sexual services for money, advertising, spam, requests for money, links to paid services;
- fraud, extortion, pressuring others into making transfers or buying gift cards or cryptocurrency;
- threats, harassment, hate speech, content inciting violence;
- publishing other people's personal data (address, phone number, surname) without their consent;
- circumventing the Service's limits and safeguards, including automated account creation or messaging.
Erotic content
The Service is a dating and erotic site intended exclusively for adults. Logged-in users may see other people's intimate preferences, personals in erotic categories, spicy questions and games, and racy photos. Erotic content must not depict minors, violence or acts performed without the consent of all participants, and must not be used to offer paid sexual services. Anyone who does not wish to see racy photos can blur them in their settings.
Photo rules
- Photos must show the account holder (or the couple running the account). Photos of minors, photos of other people and photos containing contact details are prohibited.
- The main photo must be an ordinary one - with no nudity.
- Racy photos, i.e. those with partial nudity, are allowed in the public gallery: an uncovered chest (this also applies to women), with no nudity below the waist. They are visible only to logged-in users and can be blurred in settings.
- Nudity below the waist is allowed only in the private gallery, which is visible only to people you grant access to.
- Graphic close-ups of genitals, depictions of sexual acts, violence and content shared without the consent of the person in the photo are always prohibited.
Personals
- Personals are free and visible to logged-in users for 14 days (with the option to renew); each person may have no more than 2 active personals. A highlight and a bump to top are available for points.
- Personals offering paid services (including sexual services), sponsorship arrangements, business advertising, personals containing someone else's details, as well as phone numbers and links in the text are prohibited (a number may be shown only via the "show my number" option).
- Personals may be reviewed by moderation before publication, and those that break the rules will be removed.
Phone number
Providing your number is voluntary. Your number is visible only to the people you choose (nobody, people you have an open conversation with, or all logged-in users) and to logged-in readers of a personal for which you have chosen to show it. Using other people's numbers for spam or harassment is prohibited.
6. Moderation, decisions and appeals
We review photos before they are published. We handle reports from users and from people outside the Service (the Report illegal content form) without undue delay. In the event of a violation we may: issue a warning, hide a photo or description, temporarily suspend the account or block it permanently. Every decision comes with a statement of reasons visible to the person concerned. Every decision may be appealed using the form in the Service - the appeal is reviewed by a different moderator or an administrator, and the response, with reasons, is visible in the Service.
7. Safety and messages
Ordinary photos sent in a conversation are visible to the recipient. View-once photos disappear from the conversation after being viewed, but are stored on the server for 90 days (12 months if reported) and are accessible only to moderation in connection with a report. The recipient can take a screenshot - this cannot be blocked in a browser. We describe safety precautions on the Safety page.
8. Deleting your account
You can delete your account at any time in your settings. Your profile disappears immediately, and your data is permanently deleted within 30 days. Reported content and the record of moderation decisions are kept as evidence for 12 months. The Provider may delete an account for serious or repeated violations of these Terms, with a statement of reasons and the right to appeal.
9. Complaints and contact
Complaints about the operation of the Service may be sent to kontakt@dejt.pl or submitted via the Contact page. We respond within 14 days. Point of contact for authorities and users within the meaning of the Digital Services Act (DSA): kontakt@dejt.pl, in Polish.
10. Final provisions
The Provider is liable for the operation of the Service in accordance with general rules, but is not liable for users' content and conduct beyond the extent required by law. We will notify you of any changes to these Terms at least 14 days in advance in the Service or by email. Consumers may use out-of-court dispute resolution methods, including assistance from a municipal or district consumer ombudsman (miejski lub powiatowy rzecznik konsumentów). Matters not governed by these Terms are subject to Polish law.